Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or can we create confidence over a period of time? Yes, some people just appear to have it. But as someone that had it, lost it entirely, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to tell you that you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron confidence in your life.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or that you just need some more because you know exactly how much it would aid you with making choices. But truly, where does this sustainable confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the process of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that almost all people frequently overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and truly knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these affirmative habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you take the time to really nail the small stuff, the bigger things become more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of targeting the little things that truly set us up for failure.
So sweat the little stuff. Really take the time to target the feasible measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can achieve, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is absolutely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get put off when they try something large in life and fail. Actually the majority will try something 3 times and then give up completely. But if you build some significant momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and again and again until the day you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are capable of extraordinary things.
But first, you need to sweat the really small stuff.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or that you just need some more because you know exactly how much it would aid you with making choices. But truly, where does this sustainable confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the process of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that almost all people frequently overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and truly knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these affirmative habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you take the time to really nail the small stuff, the bigger things become more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of targeting the little things that truly set us up for failure.
So sweat the little stuff. Really take the time to target the feasible measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can achieve, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is absolutely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get put off when they try something large in life and fail. Actually the majority will try something 3 times and then give up completely. But if you build some significant momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and again and again until the day you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are capable of extraordinary things.
But first, you need to sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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