If we truly believe in ourselves, who we are, what our purpose is in this world and what we can offer those around us, then barely any quantity of feedback or praise that can knock us off our center.
It's only when when person builds himself on the compliments or criticisms of others that their character begins to take a dive.
To flourish in this world, you really must be able to have thick skin. For no real reason at all the wolves will come out after you and try to tear you and your reputation to shreds. Similarly, people around you'll compliment you with hollow praise and try and bring your ego up. If we slide into permitting both of these seemingly uncontrollable ways of the world to outline us, we can end up in an entire world of suffering.
The solution?
We have got to believe in ourselves. While this is proving to be one of the hardest things we have to create it's also one of the most beneficial lessons you can ever learn in life. No matter what, when the challenges and praise comes, you continue to can maintain who you are. The enticements of life will try to make you change who you are into what the world wants you to be.
Avoid this at all costs. Don't change for those reasons. Instead, change for yourself and who you know you may be in the future. Keep growing and continue to enhance your life day in and day out because that's what feels right to you.
Then, when you finally reach the end of the line, you'll always be able to say that you stayed true to yourself regardless of everything else. To me, that sounds a bit like a pretty happy life.
So start believing in yourself. You never know what you are capapble of until you really go for it.
It's only when when person builds himself on the compliments or criticisms of others that their character begins to take a dive.
To flourish in this world, you really must be able to have thick skin. For no real reason at all the wolves will come out after you and try to tear you and your reputation to shreds. Similarly, people around you'll compliment you with hollow praise and try and bring your ego up. If we slide into permitting both of these seemingly uncontrollable ways of the world to outline us, we can end up in an entire world of suffering.
The solution?
We have got to believe in ourselves. While this is proving to be one of the hardest things we have to create it's also one of the most beneficial lessons you can ever learn in life. No matter what, when the challenges and praise comes, you continue to can maintain who you are. The enticements of life will try to make you change who you are into what the world wants you to be.
Avoid this at all costs. Don't change for those reasons. Instead, change for yourself and who you know you may be in the future. Keep growing and continue to enhance your life day in and day out because that's what feels right to you.
Then, when you finally reach the end of the line, you'll always be able to say that you stayed true to yourself regardless of everything else. To me, that sounds a bit like a pretty happy life.
So start believing in yourself. You never know what you are capapble of until you really go for it.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Feeling a bit worn down and tired from failed journeys of the past? Dig into these tired quotes and then explore around the site for some more inspiration. You have what it takes to do something great.
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