When we let go of what we think we need to be, we give ourselves the room to grow into who we truly could become.
The society we have been brought up in has fed us this narrative that we always have to be something more than who we are.
We have to be prettier, funnier, richer and everything else in between. But all of these things that we think that we have to be stop us from really expressing who we are deep down. We consistently evaluate ourselves against others and create false masks so friends and family will like us more. Thing is, after a while, these masks always fall off and people end up seeing us for our true selves no matter what.
It's a lot easier and far more fun in the end to be exactly who you are without any apologies.
If you are going to head down the road of personal development, you really have to take one thing into mind. You have to understand why you are doing it. If you are doing it for someone else, you are probably going to fail. But if you do it for yourself because you see something more for yourself, you will eventually build something you can be incredibly proud of.
The reason why most people fail in their goals is because they don't actually believe in what they are doing. Their reasons for heading into significant amount of discomfort aren't supported by any strong will and they will find themselves failing over and over again. If you are going to dive into all of this, you have to make sure you're doing it for yourself.
Be appreciative for what you have in your life and who is currently surrounding you. Then, if you want something different for yourself, then dive into a journey that could help you create something magnificent. But do it for yourself. Do it to make yourself proud. Do it so you can love yourself just that much more.
In the end, if we stay true to our own paths and believe in ourselves, we are truly capable of anything.
The society we have been brought up in has fed us this narrative that we always have to be something more than who we are.
We have to be prettier, funnier, richer and everything else in between. But all of these things that we think that we have to be stop us from really expressing who we are deep down. We consistently evaluate ourselves against others and create false masks so friends and family will like us more. Thing is, after a while, these masks always fall off and people end up seeing us for our true selves no matter what.
It's a lot easier and far more fun in the end to be exactly who you are without any apologies.
If you are going to head down the road of personal development, you really have to take one thing into mind. You have to understand why you are doing it. If you are doing it for someone else, you are probably going to fail. But if you do it for yourself because you see something more for yourself, you will eventually build something you can be incredibly proud of.
The reason why most people fail in their goals is because they don't actually believe in what they are doing. Their reasons for heading into significant amount of discomfort aren't supported by any strong will and they will find themselves failing over and over again. If you are going to dive into all of this, you have to make sure you're doing it for yourself.
Be appreciative for what you have in your life and who is currently surrounding you. Then, if you want something different for yourself, then dive into a journey that could help you create something magnificent. But do it for yourself. Do it to make yourself proud. Do it so you can love yourself just that much more.
In the end, if we stay true to our own paths and believe in ourselves, we are truly capable of anything.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes daily articles on the journey of life at The Better Man Project Dive into these Encouraging Quotes to start your journey into personal development today.
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