Where does that thing called confidence really come from?
Some people would argue that you are born with confidence and others would argue that like anything else you can build it into your foundation over a period of time. As someone who has had a lot of confidence, then lost all of it, and had to rebuild it back from ground zero I would side with those who say it can be built.
Maybe you are at a point in your life where confidence is not in the cards but that doesn't have to be the end of your efforts towards having some in your life. While knowing this is comforting, you really do have to understand where confidence comes from in the first place.
Focus on momentum builders. The momentum builders are those little daily actions that many people can pass over as not important. However, if you focus on these little daily actions and do them with intention, they help you build momentum, integrity, and confidence. When you focus on the details of life that others look over, you are separating yourself from the crowd.
Then, when you start to build some serious momentum from doing the little things right, you can raise the bar on your life and start going after bigger goals. Those bigger goals become more doable because you have the background and experience of doing all of the little things right. That's what confidence is really made out of. Confidence is built from knowing you can perform a task because you have done something similar before. Confidence comes from trust.
So don't listen to conventional wisdom that says, "Don't sweat the small stuff." Sweat it. Make sure you sweat it. Focus on the little things in life and they will help you build the momentum to tackle bigger goals.
When you start to build some serious momentum in your life, there's no stopping you. Instead of focusing on huge goals to give you that momentum, think about the small daily activities that will help you get there.
Those little daily choices are the momentum builders.
So try something new and bring your vision back down to the micro level.
Some people would argue that you are born with confidence and others would argue that like anything else you can build it into your foundation over a period of time. As someone who has had a lot of confidence, then lost all of it, and had to rebuild it back from ground zero I would side with those who say it can be built.
Maybe you are at a point in your life where confidence is not in the cards but that doesn't have to be the end of your efforts towards having some in your life. While knowing this is comforting, you really do have to understand where confidence comes from in the first place.
Focus on momentum builders. The momentum builders are those little daily actions that many people can pass over as not important. However, if you focus on these little daily actions and do them with intention, they help you build momentum, integrity, and confidence. When you focus on the details of life that others look over, you are separating yourself from the crowd.
Then, when you start to build some serious momentum from doing the little things right, you can raise the bar on your life and start going after bigger goals. Those bigger goals become more doable because you have the background and experience of doing all of the little things right. That's what confidence is really made out of. Confidence is built from knowing you can perform a task because you have done something similar before. Confidence comes from trust.
So don't listen to conventional wisdom that says, "Don't sweat the small stuff." Sweat it. Make sure you sweat it. Focus on the little things in life and they will help you build the momentum to tackle bigger goals.
When you start to build some serious momentum in your life, there's no stopping you. Instead of focusing on huge goals to give you that momentum, think about the small daily activities that will help you get there.
Those little daily choices are the momentum builders.
So try something new and bring your vision back down to the micro level.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about the experience of daily life on this earth. Make sure to check out these Positive Thinking Quotes and dive into some Be Happy Quotes to start moving towards those dreams.
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