Have you been told that in order to use the Law of Attraction to its fullest potential you should think positive thoughts about what you want your life to be like. Once you feel sure that you will achieve your goal then your reality will begin to move towards that goal. How can you be positive and optimistic all the time though? What if you feel damaged or filled with doubts and fears? What if your nature simply isn't very positive all the time? Are you relegated to living a life where your dreams won't come true?
It's normal that we doubt. It's normal for some of us to be filled with fear. Some of us simply don't have the time to repair the damage that has been done to us by life yet we still want our lives to change. The fear of success and love and change can consciously and subconsciously overwhelm us. We might fear becoming wealthy because we worry that our friends and family will reject us or use us. We worry about getting our hopes up when it comes to romantic relationships because the rejection from that one person that we truly love would slay our heart. We worry about any and every sort of change until we feel paralyzed with fear and helpless to change or even dream of positive change. What if we tried harnessing that fear and used it to propel us towards our dreams?
It is often said that thoughts backed by powerful emotions are necessary to manifest our dreams. Many people will tell you that your thoughts backed by passion and desire will bring you the things you dream of. If this is true then thoughts backed by fear can also help to bring a scenario in your mind to life. Perhaps you have had this happen in your life. Maybe you worried that you would lose a job. It could be that you were filled with fear that someone you loved would leave you. Have you ever had an instance in your life where you could almost picture in your mind something bad happening and that nightmare soon came true? That is an example of a thought backed by a powerful emotion. It was a negative emotion but the universe doesn't know that. The Law of Attraction doesn't judge.
Now, what if you could recreate that kind of scenario in your life but use those negative emotions to bring the things you want into your life. What if you could turn fear in your favor and use worry to make your dreams come true. While being positive and thinking optimistic thoughts about your future might be your goal, if you are struggling with negative thoughts, why not bend those thoughts to help you instead of hurt you?
For example, perhaps you have an elusive goal of falling in love. Maybe you have someone in mind or it could be that your dream is simply that someone wonderful comes into your life and falls in love with you. You want this to happen but history has shown that relationships end poorly for you. In the back of your mind there is constant doubt or fear that you'll be hurt or rejected. This fear becomes so overwhelming that you become emotional and frustrated with trying to have pleasant thoughts about this dream of falling in love.
To turn these negative thoughts in your favor you could create a frightening scenario where the person that you love falls in love with you but you're not ready. Maybe your living situation isn't what you wish it would be. Perhaps you are afraid that once the relationship is in full swing that you won't have time for yourself. Maybe you could worry about the financial ramifications of a romantic relationship and the frustration that might occur if you were in a relationship. Use these fears and worries to put emotion behind your thoughts. Allow those powerful negative emotions to cloud the actual goal so your aren't worrying about the goal so much as the collateral damage that will occur when your dream does become reality.
While it might be your goal to manifest the life of your dreams by visualizing everything working out as you might like, struggling with negative thoughts is no fun. You can still spend time each day visualizing your dreams and working on vision boards but when those negative thoughts invade your mind, try to use them to your advantage for a change. Use everything in your power to bring the changes that you desire. Instead of struggling or beating yourself up for being fearful or doubtful, turn the tables on fear and leverage it to your advantage for a change.
It's normal that we doubt. It's normal for some of us to be filled with fear. Some of us simply don't have the time to repair the damage that has been done to us by life yet we still want our lives to change. The fear of success and love and change can consciously and subconsciously overwhelm us. We might fear becoming wealthy because we worry that our friends and family will reject us or use us. We worry about getting our hopes up when it comes to romantic relationships because the rejection from that one person that we truly love would slay our heart. We worry about any and every sort of change until we feel paralyzed with fear and helpless to change or even dream of positive change. What if we tried harnessing that fear and used it to propel us towards our dreams?
It is often said that thoughts backed by powerful emotions are necessary to manifest our dreams. Many people will tell you that your thoughts backed by passion and desire will bring you the things you dream of. If this is true then thoughts backed by fear can also help to bring a scenario in your mind to life. Perhaps you have had this happen in your life. Maybe you worried that you would lose a job. It could be that you were filled with fear that someone you loved would leave you. Have you ever had an instance in your life where you could almost picture in your mind something bad happening and that nightmare soon came true? That is an example of a thought backed by a powerful emotion. It was a negative emotion but the universe doesn't know that. The Law of Attraction doesn't judge.
Now, what if you could recreate that kind of scenario in your life but use those negative emotions to bring the things you want into your life. What if you could turn fear in your favor and use worry to make your dreams come true. While being positive and thinking optimistic thoughts about your future might be your goal, if you are struggling with negative thoughts, why not bend those thoughts to help you instead of hurt you?
For example, perhaps you have an elusive goal of falling in love. Maybe you have someone in mind or it could be that your dream is simply that someone wonderful comes into your life and falls in love with you. You want this to happen but history has shown that relationships end poorly for you. In the back of your mind there is constant doubt or fear that you'll be hurt or rejected. This fear becomes so overwhelming that you become emotional and frustrated with trying to have pleasant thoughts about this dream of falling in love.
To turn these negative thoughts in your favor you could create a frightening scenario where the person that you love falls in love with you but you're not ready. Maybe your living situation isn't what you wish it would be. Perhaps you are afraid that once the relationship is in full swing that you won't have time for yourself. Maybe you could worry about the financial ramifications of a romantic relationship and the frustration that might occur if you were in a relationship. Use these fears and worries to put emotion behind your thoughts. Allow those powerful negative emotions to cloud the actual goal so your aren't worrying about the goal so much as the collateral damage that will occur when your dream does become reality.
While it might be your goal to manifest the life of your dreams by visualizing everything working out as you might like, struggling with negative thoughts is no fun. You can still spend time each day visualizing your dreams and working on vision boards but when those negative thoughts invade your mind, try to use them to your advantage for a change. Use everything in your power to bring the changes that you desire. Instead of struggling or beating yourself up for being fearful or doubtful, turn the tables on fear and leverage it to your advantage for a change.
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