Attracting the man of your dreams or any man, for that matter, probably isn't as difficult as you are making it out to be. Once you know a few secrets about what men find attractive and how men think, you can leverage this covert intelligence to attract and connect with any man. No matter what you look like, how much you believe that he's out of your league or even if he already has a girlfriend, you can attract and connect with any many you choose once you understand how men think and process attraction.
While it is unfortunate that men and women don't think alike, if it was simple then there would be no challenge. Many women make the mistake of trying to give a man the same signals or treatment that they desire. Men are simply wired differently and they feel attraction on a different level. Becoming friends might be easy but if you are hoping to ignite romantic feelings that lead to a relationship then you must understand how to make him look at you differently and feel differently around you than he does with any other woman.
As you know already, men are primarily attracted to things visually. We could use cars as an example, among other things. A man will like a car because of how it makes him feel visually before he sits in it or takes it for a test drive. A man is also attracted to a woman visually initially and this will play a role throughout the courtship process as he becomes connected to you. Of course, eventually, that visual stimulation wears off and his decision about who he is attracted to takes other factors into consideration such as personality, character and temperament. Initially, you need to attract him visually before you can show him how wonderful you are. If you are worried now because you're not perfect or you feel that there is nothing visually attractive about you then just relax. All that is required is at least one single visual trigger for him to take notice of you and then the fun begins.
You don't have to be perfect or be the most beautiful girl in the room. All that is required is that you have one feature that is attractive. Perhaps someone has told you that you have pretty eyes or beautiful hair. Maybe you have shapely legs or a pleasant smile. You can accentuate these features and hide any features that you feel are unattractive. For instance, if you have nice hair but you have crooked teeth, braid your hair and avoid giving a toothy smile. If you have nice legs yet you don't like your hair, a dress or skirt that shows off your legs and perhaps a fashionable hat to hide your hair while adding some flair might be in order. Remember, you only have to have one or two attractive features that will get his attention long enough for you to break the ice and make him think about you.
Flirting is huge with men. They don't know it but they are attracted to women that flirt with them. Coming right out and telling a guy that you're interested in him will make him run for the nearest fire exit yet flirting with him will make him want to get to know you better. You might say that no self respecting woman flirts with guys these days. You might feel awkward or ridiculous flirting with a man like a high school cheerleader but it works. While every other girl in the room is too embarrassed to flirt with that guy, your feminine charm will outshine those wall flowers.
Yes, we are talking about flirting just as you have seen it in the movies. Toss your hair back a few times, run your fingers through your hair, bite your finger as you laugh at his jokes and wink at him when he's being naughty. Lean in good and close when you're telling him a secret and touch him when you're talking to him to solidify that connection that you're building with him. Not too many women dare to actually flirt these days. They think that it is below them or somehow old fashioned but it works and it works well.
Once you have gotten his attention it is time to connect with him and make him feel something special for you and you alone. Stimulating conversation is at the top of list of desire able traits in a mate for all of us but so many women fear that they have to be highly intelligent or that they have to impress a man to make a good impression. The truth is that people love to talk about themselves. By asking good questions and going beyond what any other woman might dare to ask, you can create a bond with him that will disarm him and make him feel like he has known you all his life or that you were meant to be together. It is all a matter of being a little bold as the conversation moves along and keeping the focus on him.
Most people ask the same boring questions when they meet someone new. They ask what you do for a living, whether or not you like your job and where you're from. The deepest most people probe when they're talking to someone they're interested in is to ask how they became interested in their current career. Asking questions that build off of the answers that he gives you will allow you to dig down into his life and his feelings. Don't be shy. Ask him if he ever thought that he would be where he is now when he was ten or twelve. This is a way of indirectly asking him what his childhood dream was. Before you know it he is sharing his innermost secrets from his life with you. You will begin to understand who he is as a person. As he shares these secrets he will automatically become connected to you on a very deep level.
As you can see, creating a connection that is real and tangible isn't difficult. You can have fun while you attract that guy that you're interested in become someone that he truly appreciates and cherishes as a woman and a person. What you look like, how intelligent you are and your level of success isn't important to a man. How you make him feel when he is with you is the most attractive aspect of a relationship for a man. If he trusts you and feels that you're different than other women, he will share his most precious secrets with you. You will become someone crucial in his life and you won't have to worry about other women or having him lose interest in you. His affection and devotion will mirror the attention and passion that you show towards him. Understanding men and how they think and feel are the keys to making him fall in love with you. Once you understand what makes a man tick, attracting him will be simple.
While it is unfortunate that men and women don't think alike, if it was simple then there would be no challenge. Many women make the mistake of trying to give a man the same signals or treatment that they desire. Men are simply wired differently and they feel attraction on a different level. Becoming friends might be easy but if you are hoping to ignite romantic feelings that lead to a relationship then you must understand how to make him look at you differently and feel differently around you than he does with any other woman.
As you know already, men are primarily attracted to things visually. We could use cars as an example, among other things. A man will like a car because of how it makes him feel visually before he sits in it or takes it for a test drive. A man is also attracted to a woman visually initially and this will play a role throughout the courtship process as he becomes connected to you. Of course, eventually, that visual stimulation wears off and his decision about who he is attracted to takes other factors into consideration such as personality, character and temperament. Initially, you need to attract him visually before you can show him how wonderful you are. If you are worried now because you're not perfect or you feel that there is nothing visually attractive about you then just relax. All that is required is at least one single visual trigger for him to take notice of you and then the fun begins.
You don't have to be perfect or be the most beautiful girl in the room. All that is required is that you have one feature that is attractive. Perhaps someone has told you that you have pretty eyes or beautiful hair. Maybe you have shapely legs or a pleasant smile. You can accentuate these features and hide any features that you feel are unattractive. For instance, if you have nice hair but you have crooked teeth, braid your hair and avoid giving a toothy smile. If you have nice legs yet you don't like your hair, a dress or skirt that shows off your legs and perhaps a fashionable hat to hide your hair while adding some flair might be in order. Remember, you only have to have one or two attractive features that will get his attention long enough for you to break the ice and make him think about you.
Flirting is huge with men. They don't know it but they are attracted to women that flirt with them. Coming right out and telling a guy that you're interested in him will make him run for the nearest fire exit yet flirting with him will make him want to get to know you better. You might say that no self respecting woman flirts with guys these days. You might feel awkward or ridiculous flirting with a man like a high school cheerleader but it works. While every other girl in the room is too embarrassed to flirt with that guy, your feminine charm will outshine those wall flowers.
Yes, we are talking about flirting just as you have seen it in the movies. Toss your hair back a few times, run your fingers through your hair, bite your finger as you laugh at his jokes and wink at him when he's being naughty. Lean in good and close when you're telling him a secret and touch him when you're talking to him to solidify that connection that you're building with him. Not too many women dare to actually flirt these days. They think that it is below them or somehow old fashioned but it works and it works well.
Once you have gotten his attention it is time to connect with him and make him feel something special for you and you alone. Stimulating conversation is at the top of list of desire able traits in a mate for all of us but so many women fear that they have to be highly intelligent or that they have to impress a man to make a good impression. The truth is that people love to talk about themselves. By asking good questions and going beyond what any other woman might dare to ask, you can create a bond with him that will disarm him and make him feel like he has known you all his life or that you were meant to be together. It is all a matter of being a little bold as the conversation moves along and keeping the focus on him.
Most people ask the same boring questions when they meet someone new. They ask what you do for a living, whether or not you like your job and where you're from. The deepest most people probe when they're talking to someone they're interested in is to ask how they became interested in their current career. Asking questions that build off of the answers that he gives you will allow you to dig down into his life and his feelings. Don't be shy. Ask him if he ever thought that he would be where he is now when he was ten or twelve. This is a way of indirectly asking him what his childhood dream was. Before you know it he is sharing his innermost secrets from his life with you. You will begin to understand who he is as a person. As he shares these secrets he will automatically become connected to you on a very deep level.
As you can see, creating a connection that is real and tangible isn't difficult. You can have fun while you attract that guy that you're interested in become someone that he truly appreciates and cherishes as a woman and a person. What you look like, how intelligent you are and your level of success isn't important to a man. How you make him feel when he is with you is the most attractive aspect of a relationship for a man. If he trusts you and feels that you're different than other women, he will share his most precious secrets with you. You will become someone crucial in his life and you won't have to worry about other women or having him lose interest in you. His affection and devotion will mirror the attention and passion that you show towards him. Understanding men and how they think and feel are the keys to making him fall in love with you. Once you understand what makes a man tick, attracting him will be simple.
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