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vendredi 25 juillet 2014

Learning Great Tips On How To Make Good Friends

By Sharron Cantu


People have an innate desire to want to develop special relationships with others. There may be times where it's not so easy to do so, especially if one really doesn't know the first step. Many individuals suffer from being shy as well as a lack of confidence. Knowing how to approach an individual may also be an obstacle. Some just need some helpful tips on how to make good friends.

It's hard to develop friendships without first placing oneself in an environment to do so. For example, for individuals that are attending school or college, try to find a table where one or two people are eating lunch. Don't always go for the most popular crowd. Look for individuals who will be with you forever and not ones that are only interested in what you can do for them.

Clubs or organizations often make a great place to formulate friendships. Sometimes individuals that have absolutely nothing in common become the best of friends. Others may find friends on social networks just by chit-chatting. Church is also a common place for friendships to develop due to sharing the same faith as a point of commonality.

Knowing how to communicate is an important step in friendship. Learning how to start a conversation, make eye contact, and look approachable is important. Learn how to give compliments, or maybe even ask for help. Conversations may blossom with the simplest statements. When a conversation ends, then one should introduce themselves. So, the next time the individual sees that person, they will impress them with simple facts they remembered from their last conversation.

Now that the ice has been broken, initiate a get together. That can be simply getting a bite to eat, or doing something of like interest. It's hard to move into friendship if a person never goes beyond chit chat. This can simply be by saying, "I've got an appointment, but if you ever want to get together, here's my phone number and email address."

Learning not to pressure a person is good advice when it comes to building friendships. Relationships need to run their course, without being forced. When an individual is forced into something too soon, catastrophe is soon to follow. Putting unnecessary pressure on someone often brings about stress as well as regret.

Being loyal is a great way to build a friendship that lasts. It means being with someone in the good times and the bad times. It doesn't matter what type of negative situation that they're in, because a great acquaintance doesn't pass judgement. They are always there for support. They are trustworthy. When they say they're going to be somewhere, they are sure to show up. Good friends don't leave their buddies waiting without giving them the simple courtesy of a phone call.

Good friends are great listeners and are trustworthy. Always remember important details about what they say. Don't always be so quick to interrupt and give an opinion. Regardless, the relationship should be balanced. Friendship is a two-way street, and no one should feel that they're putting more in than the other individual. Friendships that begin the right way often last a lifetime.




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